Sports shouldn’t matter. In the grand scheme of things the ending
of a particular game or how one of my favorite teams performs shouldn’t affect
me. I mean, I’m not the one getting paid. My future isn’t riding on this
outcome. Hell, the chances that the result of a particular game changes my activities
for the day is relatively small.
When I was little, I would rise and fall with every game.
Every Mets and Bills game seemed so incredibly important. A
win would equal euphoria. A loss would mean heartbreak.
As I’ve gotten older, I have been able to gain perspective.
Every game doesn’t matter. Sure, I still get wrapped up in the occasional big
game against a certain New England rival or a particularly big series with the
team from the City of Brotherly Love, but I’ve been able to grow enough where
it doesn’t seem like a matter of life and death. Sports are a form of
entertainment. They are there for enjoyment and shouldn’t be taken so seriously
that they become the focal point of somebody’s life.
(I wrote that section above mainly so you don’t think I’m a crazy
person. Please remember it while reading the rest of this piece.)
This is a lesson that I will hopefully be able to teach my own
children someday. This lesson will go hand in hand with another pearl of wisdom
that I will pass along; DO NOT EVER BECOME A FAN OF THE NEW YORK METS OR THE BUFFALO
BILLS.
See, while all of what I wrote above is true, this stuff still impacts
my life. I still want my teams to do well and win. I want to be the envy of all
my friends. This is something that I hope my children will one day experience. The
joy of rooting for a winner; a feeling their father will seemingly never know.
This summer has been brutal for yours truly. Everything that
could go wrong has gone wrong when it comes to the Buffalo Bills and New York Metropolitans. And the worst part is that it’s just business as usual for the
two New York teams.
Not much was expected of the Mets this season. We were going
through another rebuilding year. I swear to god I feel like the Mets could’ve
rebuilt every building in New York City considering the amount of years I’ve
been told they were rebuilding.
But there were some bright spots heading into
this campaign. David Wright signed a new long-term contract in the off
season becoming the true face of the franchise and starting pitcher Matt Harvey
was coming off a promising rookie season and would hopefully take another step
forward. You will notice that neither player is currently playing the game of
baseball.
Wright was in the midst of an MVP-type season until he
injured his hamstring earlier this month and has yet to return to the field. Look,
losing a star player would affect every team in Major League Baseball but this
one hurt the Mets more than most mainly because Wright was THE ONLY COMPETENT
HITTER THEY HAD IN THE LINEUP. With Wright out, I’m not even sure you could
call what the Mets were throwing out there a Triple-A lineup. I understand the
need to rebuild but we couldn’t find professional hitters to round out the
lineup?
Harvey on the other hand took more than one step forward
this year. He took about five. Harvey became everything Mets fans wanted him to
be. He evolved into the most dominant young starting pitcher the Mets have had
since Dwight Gooden toed the rubber in Flushing. Must see TV for every Mets fan
when he took the mound every fifth day. However this would not last. News broke
earlier this week that Harvey has a partial tear in his ulnar collateral
ligament. Harvey will not take the mound the rest of this year and chances are
that he will have to undergo Tommy John surgery which will keep him out until 2015.
2015. Looks like the Mets will be rebuilding again next season.
It would be much easier for me to shake off this disastrous
Mets season if my favorite NFL team had any hope of being good this season. But
since I cheer for the Bills, I can be sure this will not be the case. Things
began promisingly enough for the Bills this summer. First round Quarterback
E.J. Manuel played very well in his first two preseason games and it seemed
like the team would have a real quarterback under center for the first time
since Doug Flutie. The defense also looked good and seemed to be improving.
But again, fate would have the last laugh at my expense.
Soon after completing his second pre-season game, Manuel would need to have a
small procedure done on his knee that leaves him doubtful for the first game of
the season. Kevin Kolb, the team’s backup QB, would go on to suffer a
concussion in the third pre-season game
and it appears his career is over. Undrafted rookie Jeff Tuel come on down
buddy, you are the week one starting quarterback for the Buffalo Bills! If he
does indeed start week one Tuel will become the first undrafted rookie to start
a week one game in the modern era. Yup, that’s ever folks. The first one ever. God
help me.
Not only that, but the defense may have lost its best player.
Cornerback Stephon Gilmore had a solid rookie season and was on the verge of
becoming a lockdown corner in a league that doesn’t have many. But alas,
Gilmore broke his wrist and will now be out the first 6-8 weeks of the year. Add
to that the fact that all-pro safety Jairus Byrd doesn’t want to be there and
the defense appears to be on rock solid footing. Sarcasm people.
So our starting quarterback week one is a guy no one ever
heard of and our best corner is out for the first quarter of the season. The Bills
also welcome Tom Brady and the Patriots to the Ralph in the opening week of the
season. The Bills will get killed in this game. Seriously, they can’t make this
line high enough. Another great start to an NFL season from the boys from
Buffalo.
The situations that the Bills and Mets find themselves in
would be comical if it wasn’t so expected. Fans of both of these teams have
been down these roads too many times to count. In the early 1990’s the Bills
were the dominant team in the AFC and made the Super Bowl four consecutive
years but lost them all. The Bills haven’t been to the playoffs since 1999,
when this happened, and are now the holder of the longest playoff drought
currently in the NFL.
Meanwhile the Mets lost game seven of the 2006 NLCS to the
Cardinals in one of the most excruciating ways possible. The Mets decided to
follow that performance up with back-to-back collapses that made them the punch
line of Major League Baseball. They haven’t been back to the playoffs since
2006 and their majority owner has since been embroiled in a Ponzi scheme which
has cost the team millions.
Up above I mentioned that sports are meant for enjoyment. Rooting
for the Mets and the Bills is not something I would say is enjoyable. Most of
the time it’s awful. Actually it’s been so heartbreaking over the years that I’ve
become numb. When Harvey went down with his injury I can’t say I was surprised.
These things happen to Mets fans. Just like they happen to Bills fans. Watching the Mets and Bills is like watching
the season one finale of The O.C. on loop. Just one stomach punch after the
other.
So when my kids begin picking out their favorite teams in
baseball and football, I’m going to do all I can to steer them to teams like
the St. Louis Cardinals and the Green Bay Packers. I want them to have fun
watching sports. Something I know very little about.
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